communication

Would you tell me what is up?

 I have had at least several times in my life people disappearing from my circle of friends withought ever explaining the reason. If you ever experienced it, you know its enough to keep you paranoid. You keep guessing and boiling it in your mind "What the hell did go wrong?" and "Why didn't you tell me?" or "Why didn't you show it or give some sort of sign?". I guess i'm talking about straight forwardedness, which I found, many people do not consider an essential trait.  read more »

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Narrow-mindedness

 Interacting with narrow-minded people can be exhausting. They don't know much and they don't want to know yet they're so stubborn in their opinions! You tell them about your plans and if they think you shouldn't do it, they'll keep saying "No, you can't do that". Why? It's no good. But why? I don't know, it's just no good. Or ... nobody does that.  This is all they can say. If you ask them to elaborate, they become defensive and say "What? I can't have my own opinion?" You can have your darned opinion.  read more »