ya, I joined the site, paid my 3.25 and yes, I had to relax abit and get into sync with it but I definitely had an orgasm from the neck up, like a "mind orgasm",  and it lasted as long as I used the video....but it was exactly the same as a real orgasm "without the cum" sotospeak. I mean, you gotta take your hat off to a technology like that,  even if it's a little new.  What surprised me was that it actually worked!!! .... coolguy